Loving this reminder today to let go of control and expectations. To observe, accept and not try to force the situation. Be at peace and let go. Trust that you are exactly where you need to be.
Loving this reminder today to let go of control and expectations. To observe, accept and not try to force the situation. Be at peace and let go. Trust that you are exactly where you need to be.
How's life post-wedding? Any big changes since you exchanged vows? Maybe one of you has started a new job, you guys moved into your first home, or even a first baby or two are on the way!
This time in your life is no less important than when you were preparing for your wedding day. In fact, I believe marriage is even more special than the wedding! These moments where you're growing in love each day, learning more about the other, taking on your roles as husband or wife. I want to remind you not to let this time go undocumented so when your future children or grandchildren one day look for photos of you, they'll find beautifully captured moments in print instead of just selfies on cell phones that may no longer work.
For this reason, I'm offering Married Up Photo sessions for you and your partner (and any new babies or pets that may have joined your family). We'll spend time focusing on your life story, in your home or on location in your favorite places together. We'll laugh, dance, drink coffee and just have fun with it. Afterwards, you'll receive a beautiful box with fine art prints inside. Memories that can be held in the hands, framed on the walls and shared for generations.
This is the legacy you are building for your family. How will it look?
Contact me here for pricing and details.
Summer is almost over.
Literally, I've been watching the countdown until Sept. 22nd, ignoring the cooler weather cues, determined to soak in every last possible ounce of summer I can.
I almost feel robbed of it, like it was owed to me after that long rainy Seattle winter we just made it through.
I mean, summer came, but so did wildfires and tourists, burn bans and sold out campgrounds.
I'm a lover of sunshine and warmer days.
Simple days on the lake.
Fall is beautiful. I do love the the season, pumpkin flavored everything, big comfy sweaters and the colors changing around. But it's a hard transition emotionally.
I feel it, but can't quite explain it.
It's almost like my body is preparing for a season of cold and dark. It gets creaky, achey, nostalgic.
I can feel the shift of something ending. It's almost a sad feeling.
I feel like I have to say goodbye.
But then I remind myself, summer will come back. It always does. I'll feel renewed again in the spring.
Throughout fall and winter, I'll be pouring into my passions to stay revived through the fall and winter, the cold and rainy days.
Planning a couple of rainy day shoots where love will keep us warm. Getting back into painting for myself. Attending hot yoga classes. Resting more. Trying to keep my plants alive. Setting intentions and goals for my business. Taking on new photo endeavors. Traveling a bit. Hiking in the rain and loving the quiet trails.
And yes, visiting pumpkin patches, eating pie, and snuggling up to my husband in layers of cozy fleece blankets.
Until then, you can find me soaking in warm by the pool,
eating watermelon on the patio or trying to get my kayak out on the lake.
A few weeks ago, I got to photograph Shelby and Brett's nuptials along the Hood Canal. Though the sky was intensely hazy from the wildfires, the happy vibe could not be broken. The bartenders mixed up hand crafted blackberry mojitos, boats floated gently in the water and the hot sun warmed the skin of all the guests as they waited for Shelby to come down the aisle to her groom. On the lawn of the Alderbrook Resort and Spa, the high-school sweethearts promised to love and care for eachother forever. While I could go on about how beautiful the day was, I'll let the newlyweds take it from here...
"Some people might consider the vision we had for our wedding as unconventional, but we both knew right away how we wanted our special day to be. We wanted to elope, but to also include our family and best friends. We chose a serene resort on the water where we were able to enjoy our time with each other, our family, and our beautiful surroundings over the course of three days. We couldn't have asked for a more special and intimate wedding experience to celebrate our marriage (we even got to eat dinner on our wedding night!)."
"Speaking of our wedding dinner, it was the part of the day that I got to enjoy most (besides watching Shelby walk down the aisle, of course!). The wine room was decorated perfectly with all the flowers on the table and around the cake! As someone who hates for the attention to be on myself, the small dinner was perfect; the little nerves of the ceremony were gone and I just got to relax with my new wife and talk to everyone as we ate." - Brett
"Going to jot down my favorite part of the day turned into me writing about most of the day... I loved that I was able to get ready that morning with my mom, sister, best friend and new sister in law. They were so helpful and encouraging and made it fun. I also loved being in my gorgeous dress that I was obsessed with! I felt like a princess walking down the aisle towards Brett. I will never forget standing on the water, under the floral filled arbor, holding hands becoming husband and wife!" - Shelby
Thanks for letting me photograph your love story, Mr. and Mrs. Spradling!
A special thanks to Karen Kirsch for second-shooting for me.
Venue: Alderbrook Resort and Spa
Dress: Watters from Calla Bridal
Florals: CMS Floral Design
Music: South Sound Strings
Officiant: Danelle Green of Celebrations of Life
The more you do something,
the more comfortable it becomes. The more comfortable you become, the more complacent you tend to be. Exploring keeps you moving and moving keeps you growing.
With today's solar eclipse and the unique shift of energies around, I figured it only made sense to reset my intentions for the year. Even though I wasn't on the path of totality this time, the power behind the kissing of the moon and the sun was enough to inspire a bit of a reset button. To make a shift to allow more positivity and light in so that I can better send more of it back into the universe. To embrace growth. A quote (in photo above) I heard a couple years ago kept coming to my mind. Reshma Thakkar said, "the more you keep doing something, the more comfortable it becomes. The more comfortable you become, the more complacent you are. Exploring keeps you moving and moving keeps you growing."
So. Much. Truth.
Keep exploring and accepting growth. The world, your mind, your soul.
Sending lots of love and positivity to you all tonight!
Okay, how awesome is this reminder? Too often we spend more time complaining about what we dislike than praising what we do like. Let's be the light and change the pace! Today, I want you to think back to a friend, colleague, business or service that has brought you joy and make a point to thank and praise the person/people. Write them a review, give them a call, send them a note, refer them to your friends, etc... There are so many ways you can show support and thanks (and make their day)!
Just last week, I had a bride from last summer reach out and send me this message:
"As we are vastly approaching our first anniversary, I was looking through the photos from our wedding and I just wanted to say thank you again for capturing all the most wonderful moments of that day. We couldn’t have asked for anyone better to work with! I can’t help but smile looking at each and every photo. Thanks again!"
Girl, I can't help but smile too. The kindness this bride showed by simply sharing testimonial and gratitude was appreciated more than she knew! Knowing how much it made my day to hear from someone I've served, I turned around and reached out one of my favorite food vendors and wrote a review of praise on their website. A couple days later, this awesome company (Cauli'flour Foods) actually sent me a discount for my next order, thanking me for my testimonial! I went on Amazon and Ebay next and wrote reviews for all of my favorite past orders. Feeling appreciated is something we all love, right?
Cheer for others, show gratitude and remember the quote - "a rising tide lifts all boats".
"We are best friends and just the best team together."
Sounds like a two people who are meant to be together if you ask me! Shelby and Brett are high-school sweethearts who fell in love and decided to move from Arizona to the Pacific Northwest together after college. After planting roots in their home, starting new jobs and planning a wedding - they couldn't be more ready to tie the knot in the beautiful state of WA in just under a month. "We are so excited to get married because we feel like we have been talking about being married for years now and we can't believe it's finally happening."
I met them at Discovery Park in Seattle for their engagement session, where we laughed, danced, played and soaked in a setting sun. The best part is, they get to do it again as husband and wife in less than a month! Can't wait to celebrate with you two! Congrats!
For a small peek into their little love story, keep on scrollin'!
Abbey and Jacob met in Nebraska years ago. Jacob fell for Abbey immediately, telling her he was going to marry her someday. Abbey just laughed at him, not knowing that soon she would be dating him and falling head over heels in love with him. She didn't know yet that she'd say yes to his proposal and plan a wedding with him. When Abbey first met Jacob, she didn't know that she was going to be his forever person and that he would be hers. Love is full of wonderful surprises, am-i-right?
Can't wait for your wedding you two! Now scroll on to see more from their U.P. Mich engagement session:
After many months of long distance, Nik and Kendra officially were back in the same state just in time to exchange vows at a private estate in Battle Ground, WA. Family and friends traveled from MI and NC and beyond just to celebrate with the happy couple. With rustic wood signs, gold accents and bouquets of blush colored florals, the beautiful estate grounds were ready to host an outdoor ceremony and reception. Nik and Kendra opted to have a first look so they could get all of their photos taken care of before the ceremony and go straight into dinner. Rightfully so because the taco bar was ahhhhmazing. Also they wanted to spend most of their wedding day together instead of waiting until the evening when she finally walked down the aisle. Under the beaming hot sun, the newlyweds ate, prayed, danced, laughed and were wed. Marital bliss.
A huge congrats to Nik & Kendra - thanks for letting me be a part of your beautiful day!
A special shout out to Lana Aho for second-shooting and the wonderful coordination/styling from Kelsey.
Today's Tipsy Tuesday post is brought to you with the hopes of helping you plan out a simple family shot list at your wedding and sample cup of Viognier at the farmers market.
Family formal photos at a wedding can get pretty chaotic. Especially with big families. Elderly grandparents. Crying babies. Stressed mamas. You name it. Everyone seems to want a photo with the newlyweds, but the bride and groom can only hold those smiles for so long before those happy cheeks need a break. As the photographer, I ask each couple to provide me their family shot list of who is the most important for them to have photos with. The responses are different with each couple. For few, it's important that they get their entire extended families all together in a photo with them. Others, would rather keep it short and sweet and have maybe 4 photos total.
When asked for tips on how to plan a good family shot list, I try to keep it simple and easily flowing to keep everyone from being burnt out from too many photos and recommend the couples to choose only the photo combinations that will probably be printed and framed or ones they can't live without. While every cousin, aunt and old classmate may want a photo with you, I suggest keeping family photo time for your closest family members and getting the rest of the photos with your other guests during the cocktail hour or reception. Despite contrary belief, there are no rules to what you do or don't have to do when it comes to family photos.
Below are the 10 most common photos I typically try to aim for during family formals in 30 minutes or less. If you have more time, you could break these down further (i.e. Bride + her Mom or Groom and his siblings) and if you have less time, you can combine some of the combos to make sure everyone gets in who needs to. Because the day is about the Bride and Groom marrying into each other's families, I like to take a majority of the family photos with both of them together unless they've made different requests.
1. Bride with Bride's Parents
2. Bride and Groom with Bride's Parents
3. Bride and Groom with Bride's Entire Immediate Family*
4. Bride and Groom with Bride's Entire Immediate Family* + Grandparents
5. Bride and Groom with Bride's Grandparents
6. Groom with Groom's Parents
7. Bride and Groom with Groom's Parents
8. Bride and Groom with Groom's Entire Immediate Family*
9. Bride and Groom with Groom's Entire Immediate Family* + Grandparents
10. Bride and Groom with Groom's Grandparents
*= immediate family indicates a bride or groom's parents, siblings, spouses and children
Maybe you're wondering what to do if you have bad blood with someone in your family who will be at the wedding. I would never force a bride or groom to take photos with anyone they don't want to, but I highly encourage having at least one photo with immediate family members you may not be close with if they show up to your wedding. Someday, it may be important to you to have a photo of them and you don't want to end up with regrets over any short term family issues. If you're extremely uncomfortable, don't worry about it. You only have to take the photos you truly want
To sum it up, keep it simple. Don't schedule yourself to smile in the same spot for an hour (I assure you'll get annoyed/bored/tired). Don't plan for super lengthy shot lists just to please each guest. Remember, you still have to take photos with your wedding party so don't burn out your beautiful smile in one sitting. It's your day, celebrate it how you want!
Those photos on your wall right now... when were they taken?
If you're struggling to remember just how long ago it was, it's probably time to update them!
Don't worry my upper MI friends, I'm coming your way this week!
I'll be heading to the U.P. on June 6, 2017 and added a couple extra spots in my calendar for YOU! Whether it's engagement, bridal, anniversary or lifestyle photos, I'd love to capture those for you!
Just go right here and tell me which of your photos need updating.
See you soon friends!
Yay! He just popped the question and your new name is ENGAGED! There's so much excitement and you're swept off your feet and hovering above cloud 9. Enjoy it, then head on down back to earth because you've got some planning to do sister!
Let planning begin, but don't forget to actually enjoy the engagement. Remember to go on dates from time to time with zero wedding talk. Marriage > Wedding.
After you've said yes, you need to make sure you share the news with everyone and anyone, but family first! Everyone is going to want to know when the big day is. You don't have to decide on a date immediately, just let them know you'll be sending a save-the-date as soon as you decide and ask them to send you their current address. This way you don't have to make a spur of the moment date decision while you're riding that cloud 9.
Once you've soaked it all in and made the announcement, then it's time to start deciding on dates. Consider max number of guests you'd like, whether you want an indoor or outdoor wedding, what season will work for that and a date that will work for each of your schedules. Take as much time as you think you'll need to save up and plan the big day on top of your regular schedules. Always pick a few dates, just in case your priority vendors are unavailable on the first date you choose.
You'll probably want to make an estimated budget next. There are no rules, minimum or maximum for this. It can be helpful to break this down into your top 10 categories based on vendor priority to you. Who and what are the most important for you to have as part of your wedding day? Have a little flexibility in your budget; it's much easier to go over budget than you think. Write out the numbers 1-10 and list each vendor involved in your day in the order of importance to you.
1. Wedding Venue
2. Professional Photography
9. Invitation Suite
10. Other (rings, hair and makeup, officiant, honeymoon, decorations, tents, chairs, gifts, transportation, etc)
Once you decide on a rough budget, set up a meeting with a wedding planner/coordinator if you'll be working with one. These talented professionals can save you tons of stress and dirty work. If you'll be planning the day fully on your own, you'll need to get started searching out each of the major vendor categories listed above, starting with whatever vendor is a highest priority for you. This will be different from one person to the next. For me, our photographer was a top priority and we actually changed our wedding date when I found out she was already booked for our original date. Know that your major vendors (reception venues, photographers, videographers and DJs) will already be booking 1-2 years in advance so don't take your time once you know what you want.
Trust will be everything here, so follow your gut instincts when you meet with your vendors. Find professionals you have the best connection with, who you know will leave you with nothing to stress about. Someone you know you can trust. Read reviews, ask questions and meet face-to-face whenever you can. Professionals will always have a contract for you; read through before signing and never hire someone who doesn't have a written agreement to do the work you're hiring them for.
You may find your vendor priorities change throughout this process of narrowing down vendors as you find certain artists and designers you can't live without. This is normal. Just remember to adjust your budget accordingly.
Once you get the major vendors dialed in, you can start thinking about your wedding party and who you'd like to ask to stand in as your bridesmaids and groomsmen. I can't tell you who to choose, but I will say be sure to select a crew who you can trust to lift you up, help when needed and are 100% in support of you. These are your go-to guys and gals on the big day and you want friends & family you can lean on. Take them with you to go start collecting ideas and trying on dresses and florals!
Time to make the guest list and collect addresses! Start with family and work your way down through your closest friends and co-workers. Don't feel obliged to invite everyone you know! Do you want children or no children to attend? If your venue has a limit and you have an enormous guest list, you'll have to either cut back or change your venue. Do what is most important to both of you. If everyone can't fit at the ceremony, but the reception venue is larger, it's okay to invite some guests only to the reception.
Next, you'll want to book your engagement session. I highly recommend booking this with your wedding photographer as a way to get to know each other before the big day. You can use these photos in your newspaper announcements, save-the-dates and later on display at any engagement parties or showers.
Send out your save-the-dates as soon as you have your date set in stone, followed by the formal invitation & RSVPs at least two months before the wedding (even sooner for destination weddings). To save on paper, you can send a link to your guests to RSVP electronically on websites (like this one here).
There you have it: the first big things to help you get started with wedding planning. Narrowing down the little details can be tedious and sometimes annoying, but don't lose sight of what all the planning is for. Ask your family and wedding party for help whenever you need it!
Happy Wedding Planning!
The next morning, we took our time getting ready. Beau had breakfast planned, cinnamon rolls and mimosas! We ended up eating cheddar brats (something I eat like once a year normally) too because we didn't know when we'd get lunch since we were heading out on a whale tour that afternoon.
Beau and I went for a hike to Obstruction Pass again, but it was more like a jog because we had to get all the way across the island for our tour and I was reminded how out of shape I am.
We took the Orcas Express and while we didn't see any super cool killer whales, we saw a couple of gray humpback whales named Heather and Big Mama who have supposedly been around for many years.
We had a few hours to kill after and found our way to the Island Hopping Brewery. We killed time playing the cardgame Speed and sampling good craft beers before heading over to Pizza Portofino. I'm craving their garlic butter focaccia again just thinking about it.
The ferry ride back involved more (failed) attempts at finishing puzzles laid out on the tables, gorgeous sunset colors and an overwhelming sense of gratitude for what a beautiful life we have.
I'm so ready to photograph another couple on the islands now. Please just get me a Leanto next to you so we can hang by the fire after. Who wants in?
Our second wedding anniversary was Sunday May 14th. Beau told me not to make any plans for Saturday or Sunday, to pack a bag with camping and hiking gear and to plan to be up by before 3am. That was all I knew. I love how much he loves to surprise me. He always has. I'm not great at surprises because I typically clue in to little details easily, but we've both gotten better the longer we've been together.
Saturday morning, the alarm went off at 2:30am. Beau made us coffee and hustled me out the door in all of my groggy splendor. The coffee, we agreed, was terrible because he thought he'd run the same K-cup in the Keurig twice to make one big coffee (don't waste your coffee this way my friends). We stayed awake out of excitement for the rest of drive though, the Serial podcast holding our attention. By the time we reached Anacortes, I figured out we were taking the ferry over to the San Juan Islands.
On the ferry, Beau clued me in that we were going to Orcas Island and he had a list of awesome places for us to check out when we got there. The ferry wasn't packed and we walked around, watching the sun slowly coming up and fighting buying the delicious smelling tator tots because he promised there would be a cafe on the island I would love more.
We arrived at the island around 6am and the sleepy island town was still asleep so we drove around the entire west side of the island and walked along the beach, stepping on squishy kelp and looking for crabs. Once the Brown Bear Cafe opened, we were some of the first in line to enjoy a delicious Vanilla Peach croissant, JamBon (ham) croissant and a large vanilla americano.
We headed over to hike Obstruction Pass on a mission to find the starfish we read about. The screaming seagulls wanted to eat them so it took a little time to discover how well they were burrowed under crevices of rocks. It did not disappoint, they were beautiful and bright. We hate seagulls (yes, I've been pooped on on my head) so we made sure to hide them just as we found them to keep the birds guessing.
During the afternoon, we checked out Constitution point and watched two baby deer prancing around. One was albino and if you look close enough in my photos there, you can see him in the distance.
Afterwards, we stopped locally for some fresh caught mussels and then sampled vino at the Orcas Island Winery. Interestingly enough, they don't grow their own grapes on the island. The climate isn't right for growing, but they love the place enough to open a winery there. I don't mind; the merlot was delicious and bold with raspberry taste!
We stayed in a Leanto and it was much cooler than I thought a glamping experience would be! I love camping, but throw in a tent big enough to stand in, a luxury bed, camping chairs, tables, umbrellas, firepit, water jug, coffee and lanterns and all the stress of packing goes out the window. Beau surprised me with a cheeseboard, my favorite snack/meal ever. We sat by the fire all night, reminiscing our favorite wedding memories.
It was very cold outside, but they provided us a hot water bottle heat pack and wool blankets so we stayed cozy in bed. After Beau killed a large spider, I slept like a baby (which is rare for the light sleeper I am).
Enough words, more photos... Keep scrollin'
Part 2, coming right up!
Today's Tipsy Tuesday post is brought to you with a glass of merlot and on the subject of being prepared to have your wedding details photographed. These details may include (but are not limited to) the following:
When I arrive at your getting ready venue, I like to photograph the details immediately so everything is ready for you when you need it. I especially love when everything is grouped together in one area of the room, out of bags and with the tags already off.
If you'd like your wedding gown or groom's tux photographed, please have them hanging (with the tags) on the hanger you'd like them photographed on. Wooden photographs much better than plastic. If you would like bridesmaids dresses photographed as well, be sure to have them all hanging in the closet, on a curtain rod or anywhere they can neatly fit together. Many couples want their wedding attire photographed in full so please keep your shoes, ties, cuff links and veil nearby if you'd like them all captured. Keeping all of your getting ready items in one spot will keep my shooting and styling flowing efficiently and help you to not lose track of anything at the last minute.
If you'd like your invitation suite photographed, I can find just about anywhere to do this, but it's a total bonus to the photo if they can include bits of wedding details in the shot. This may include a couple scrap flowers from your florist, extra fabric from your gown or wedding favors you'll be sharing with guests later in the night. Anything small that ties in to your day.
It's always a good idea to get your rings polished before the big day as I'll be getting nice and close detail shots of them. It also helps to have both the bride and groom's wedding bands, plus the engagement ring in the same room so I can photograph them all together.
There you have it! A few simple tips to being prepared for your photographer to show up the morning of your wedding.